SELT Participating in a Discussion 2

Question 1

You want to politely interrupt a speaker who has been talking for a long time. Which phrase is most appropriate?

Accepted Answer

Sorry to jump in, but I'd like to add something here.

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Stop talking, I have something to say.

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You're wrong about that point.

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Can everyone be quiet so I can speak?

Question 2

During a discussion, someone makes a point you completely agree with. Which response best shows strong agreement?

Accepted Answer

That's exactly what I was thinking — you've put it perfectly.

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I suppose that could be right.

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I'm not sure I follow your point.

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We should move on to the next topic.

Question 3

A colleague makes a statement you disagree with. Which is the most diplomatic way to express disagreement?

Accepted Answer

I see your point, but I think there's another way to look at it.

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That's completely wrong.

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Nobody agrees with you.

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Let's ignore that idea.

Question 4

In a group discussion, you notice one participant hasn't spoken yet. What is the most inclusive thing to say?

Accepted Answer

We'd love to hear your thoughts on this, Maria.

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Why haven't you said anything yet?

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This discussion doesn't concern you.

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Let's wrap up so everyone can leave.

Question 5

Which phrase is best for building on a previous speaker's point rather than changing the topic?

Accepted Answer

Following on from what James said, I'd also add that...

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Anyway, moving on...

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Forget what was just said.

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I have a completely different idea.

Question 6

What does it mean to 'hold the floor' in a discussion?

Accepted Answer

To continue speaking without allowing interruption.

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To stand up while speaking.

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To summarize everyone else's points.

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To physically control the meeting room.

Question 7

You realize mid-discussion that you have misunderstood a previous question. What should you say?

Accepted Answer

I need to correct myself — I think I misunderstood the question earlier.

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I'll pretend I understood and hope no one notices.

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That question was poorly worded.

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Let's skip that part of the discussion.