SEI Self-Management 2 — Questions and Answers
Question 1: In the Six Seconds model, 'Apply Consequential Thinking' primarily means:
- Evaluating the likely outcomes of your actions before acting (Correct answer)
- Thinking about the past consequences of bad decisions
- Avoiding all actions that carry any risk
- Delegating decisions that have serious consequences
Correct answer: Evaluating the likely outcomes of your actions before acting
Consequential Thinking means pausing to evaluate probable outcomes and effects of your choices before you act.
Question 2: A manager feels anger rising during a difficult team meeting. The self-management skill of 'Navigate Emotions' would suggest she should:
- Suppress the anger completely so others don't notice
- Acknowledge the emotion and intentionally shift it to serve the situation (Correct answer)
- Express the anger immediately to establish authority
- Leave the meeting until the feeling passes
Correct answer: Acknowledge the emotion and intentionally shift it to serve the situation
Navigating Emotions means using emotions as data and actively redirecting them to support effective action.
Question 3: Which scenario BEST illustrates low self-management on the SEI?
- A person pauses before responding to a critical email
- A person sets long-term career goals despite short-term setbacks
- A person repeatedly interrupts colleagues when frustrated (Correct answer)
- A person reflects on their emotional triggers weekly
Correct answer: A person repeatedly interrupts colleagues when frustrated
Repeatedly acting impulsively under frustration indicates a failure to choose effective responses — a core self-management deficit.
Question 4: The SEI Self-Management competency 'Exercise Optimism' is best described as:
- Denying negative realities to stay positive
- Proactively choosing hopeful interpretations that support action (Correct answer)
- Waiting for external circumstances to improve before acting
- Focusing exclusively on best-case outcomes in planning
Correct answer: Proactively choosing hopeful interpretations that support action
Optimism in the Six Seconds model is an active, chosen mindset that fuels persistence, not denial of difficulty.
Question 5: An employee discovers he was passed over for promotion. An optimistic self-management response would be to:
- Assume the decision was politically motivated and disengage
- Seek feedback, identify growth areas, and set a plan for next time (Correct answer)
- Accept that this role is the ceiling of his career
- Immediately begin searching for a new employer
Correct answer: Seek feedback, identify growth areas, and set a plan for next time
Optimism drives constructive reframing and action-oriented responses rather than helplessness or avoidance.
Question 6: Which of the following is a key distinction between self-awareness and self-management on the SEI?
- Self-awareness is a skill; self-management is a trait you are born with
- Self-awareness involves noticing internal states; self-management involves acting on that awareness effectively (Correct answer)
- Self-management comes before self-awareness in the Six Seconds model
- They measure the same construct from different angles
Correct answer: Self-awareness involves noticing internal states; self-management involves acting on that awareness effectively
Self-awareness is the foundation of 'Know Yourself,' while self-management ('Choose Yourself') is about intentionally directing behavior based on that awareness.
Question 7: Which best represents the concept of 'intrinsic motivation' as measured by the SEI?
- Working hard to earn a bonus or avoid a penalty
- Feeling driven by internal values, curiosity, and purpose (Correct answer)
- Competing with colleagues to outperform them
- Completing tasks only when directly supervised
Correct answer: Feeling driven by internal values, curiosity, and purpose
Intrinsic motivation is fueled by internal satisfaction and alignment with personal values, not external rewards or pressures.
In the Six Seconds model, 'Apply Consequential Thinking' primarily means: