Marriage Healthy Marriage Communication 2

Question 1

What is an 'I-statement' in marital communication?

Accepted Answer

A statement expressing your own feelings and needs without blaming

Answer

An I-statement expresses how you feel and what you need without blaming your partner, such as 'I feel hurt when plans change without notice.'

Question 2

What is 'contempt' in Gottman's relationship research?

Accepted Answer

Treating your partner with disrespect and moral superiority

Answer

Contempt, the strongest predictor of divorce according to Gottman, involves treating your partner with disgust, mockery, or a sense of superiority.

Question 3

What is meant by a 'soft startup' in marital communication?

Accepted Answer

Starting a difficult conversation gently without blame or criticism

Answer

A soft startup means raising a concern in a gentle, non-blaming way, which helps prevent conflict escalation from the very beginning of a discussion.

Question 4

What does 'flooding' mean in the context of marital conflict?

Accepted Answer

Becoming emotionally overwhelmed during an argument

Answer

Flooding is when a partner becomes so emotionally overwhelmed during conflict that they can no longer think clearly or have a productive conversation.

Question 5

Which communication habit helps couples feel connected and appreciated on a daily basis?

Accepted Answer

Daily expressions of appreciation and gratitude

Answer

Expressing daily appreciation and gratitude builds emotional connection and strengthens the positive interaction ratio in marriage.

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Marriage Healthy Marriage Communication 2