Funeral Service Grief and Counseling Psychology Flashcards
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A widow making arrangements for her husband repeatedly expresses intense anger, blaming the hospital for his death. According to counseling principles for funeral directors, what is the most appropriate initial response?
Answer: Acknowledge and validate her feelings by saying, "It sounds like you are feeling incredibly angry about the care he received."
The most appropriate response is to use active listening to acknowledge and validate the client's feelings without judgment. This creates a safe space for the widow to express her grief. Suggesting therapy is premature, changing the subject is dismissive, and agreeing with the blame is unprofessional and speculative.
According to William Worden's "Tasks of Mourning" model, which task involves helping the bereaved to emotionally relocate the deceased and move forward with life?
Answer: To find an enduring connection with the deceased in the midst of embarking on a new life.
William Worden's fourth task is "to find an enduring connection with the deceased in the midst of embarking on a new life." This involves recognizing that the emotional and memorial connection can continue as the survivor reinvests in their own life. The other options represent the first three tasks in his model.
A man arranges for the cremation of his former spouse, with whom he maintained a close friendship after their divorce. He feels he cannot openly mourn because their children feel it's inappropriate. Which of the following terms best describes this man's grief?
Answer: Disenfranchised Grief
Disenfranchised grief occurs when a loss is not or cannot be openly acknowledged, publicly mourned, or socially supported. The man's relationship as an ex-spouse is not seen by his family as a legitimate reason for deep mourning, thus disenfranchising his grief.
During an arrangement conference, a client says, "I just don't know what to do. My mother handled everything, and now she's gone. I feel completely lost and overwhelmed with all these decisions." Which of the following responses is the best example of paraphrasing?
Answer: "So, if I'm hearing you correctly, you're feeling overwhelmed by the responsibility of making these decisions without your mother's guidance."
Paraphrasing involves restating the essence of the client's message in the counselor's own words to confirm understanding of both the facts and feelings. This response accurately reflects the client's stated feelings of being overwhelmed and lost without her mother. The other options are reassurance, normalizing, and questioning, respectively.
From a psychological perspective, what is a primary benefit of viewing the deceased during a funeral service?
Answer: It helps to confirm the reality of the death and confronts denial.
Viewing the deceased is a powerful tool in grief psychology because it helps the bereaved confront the reality of the death. This tangible experience is a critical step in moving past denial and beginning the grieving process, aligning with the first of Worden's Tasks of Mourning: to accept the reality of the loss.
When counseling a family on how to support a grieving child, which of the following recommendations is most appropriate for a funeral director to make?
Answer: Advise using direct and honest language, such as "died" and "dead," appropriate for the child's age.
Grief experts emphasize the importance of using clear, concrete language with children. Euphemisms like "went to sleep" or "is lost" can be confusing and create anxiety or fear. Honest, age-appropriate explanations help the child understand the finality of death and begin a healthy grieving process.